why should you like people if many people don't seem to like or accept you

[c=BF6900][i]my parents are always advising me to give off pleasant vibes to people, be friendly and have a 'positive attitude' but why should i? because throughout my adult life, many people have not been nice to me or been friendly to me, i've been rejected enough times too...and had bad treatment.

granted i had behavioural/ anger problems and that didn't help, but i was still unfairly treated a lot..why now should i give people a chance and be friendly?

or should i just cut the past loose and give people another chance?

by the way i had a wonderful childhood with friends, just my adult life has been shit.[/i][/c]

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spencer6 · 18-21, F Best Comment

Honestly it’s up to you, also you don’t owe people kindness but you should treat them with basic respect, anything beyond that is up to you and well, why you should do it? Because people treated you badly and you want to do better than them, if that doesn’t align think of something else or stop, just please don’t treat people bad just because you’ve been mistreated, I know it hurts but it’ll be okay, I promise, the new people have nothing to do with the ones in the past and they deserve a clean slate

darkmere1983 · 46-50, M

@spencer6 thanks for your words, i always appreciate help and i saw you are right.

Lilnonames · F

So a few treated u wrong so u take it out on every one.. Only you can change it

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