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How does one stay positive these days?

A rhetorical question, really. But one worth thinking about, I believe. My gut tells me that the way forward -- not just for us as individuals, or communities, or societies, or countries, but for the world as a whole -- involves learning to put more effort into focusing on positive things. This does NOT mean putting our heads in the sand, pretending everything's just fine & dandy, scrabbling to get ours while ignoring the suffering of others, etc. We still need to do the hard work, of course, and that includes facing the challenges we must face -- together, without leaving anyone or anything behind -- and doing what needs to be done; it requires working the problems, honestly and with integrity. But we also need to blend all that with some forward thinking, some hope, some exhibiting of honour and kindness toward complete strangers -- even if they are not of our own "group" or "type", or even species, for that matter -- and thereby, bit by bit, improve our collective humanity. Too many people are giving up on having any hope for the future, and it's turning them into selfish, self-centred a-holes -- "Screw everyone else; I'm gonna get what's mine, and everyone else can go to hell." That sort of thing. We've all been guilty of it to some degree. We need to grow bigger hearts if we are to survive as a planet.

So how do we do it? How do we stay positive, and progress forward? Through a little bit of conscious effort, every day. Take time to smell the flowers -- to appreciate beauty -- to compliment someone, to do a stranger a kindness without hoping for something in return.

One step at a time.

Going forward, even slowly, is better than going backward or being stuck in the mud.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
It helps to stop worrying about things beyond your control.
Llholly · 51-55, F
@Nitedoc definitely helped
Will work on putting it out of my mind
That's tough for sure
Thank you very much
Umile · 41-45, F
@Nitedoc Truth
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@Llholly You're welcome. 🙂
ABCDEF7 · M
There are people who stay positive, and there are people who can't stay positive. People who stay positive have different approach towards things than the other people who can't stay positive. Both live in the same world, and both face similar problems and challenges in life. There are also many ways to handle that. Your staying positive depends on yourself not on external factors.

Very true … I try to do my share as much as I can …

I developed social anxiety because I cared a lot and got disappointed with the result …

So, I’m giving it a rest now … I need to gain my strength …

I am waiting for a helping hand to help me get back on my feet ..
@Soossie I see how you are kind, I also sense it's come from you needing to gain strength and you've searched within compassion
@thewindupbirdchronicles

Thank you for this …

I have learnt from my father that kindness is the most important thing when it comes to heart …

I need my strength not only because of personal feelings but also because of what has been going on in the world in the couple of past decades …
@Soossie Forget what has been going in this world for the past couple of decades, as we are only human and can only change so much. But we live in different worlds.

My father taught me my heart and my compassion. I think my mother taught me kindness. I trust your heart, while I only have a glimpse of knowing you, and within yourself you hold a beautiful empathetic and compassionate heart.
Umile · 41-45, F
I pray.

And read the Bible.

It helps a lot.

God does not sleep.
Umile · 41-45, F
@RedBaron To a God fearing, trying to do good person, you can't imply that the Lord could just be their imagination. Like. Really ?
RedBaron · M
@Umile The OP asked us not to debate about this.

But one doesn’t need to believe in a supreme humanlike being to be a good person and try to do good in life.

And I don’t need to rehash my point about self-fulfilling prophecies.

So “the Lord” exists for you in whatever form you believe.

What’s wrong with that and what more do you need?
Umile · 41-45, F
@RedBaron ok then. Let's leave it at that.

Peace be with you. 🙏
Magenta · F
Certainly not by toxic positivity or some sort of performative kindness. We can't force things or people to be what they aren't.

I think it begins with the little things. The simple daily things that give a sense of pleasure or encouragement. If we can't do the small things how can we do the big things. It helps to look at the bigger vision, beyond our selves, not narrowed down into all the trivial pettiness.
1490wayb · 56-60, M
avoid all forms of media and its propaganda
RedBaron · M
@1490wayb And yet here you are on the Internet, the ultimate form of media. 🤣
Define being positive. What exactly do you mean ?
Llholly · 51-55, F
@Underconstruction hoping for the best ?
Sidewinder · 36-40, M
How DOES one stay positive these days?

I ask myself the same question.
RedBaron · M
It’s up to each of us to find happiness in our lives, and that’s no different today than 10 or 30 or 50 years ago.
Society is not moving towards some manmade Utopia now. If they exist they are localised.

The key is to be a hunter. Stay one step ahead of the pack, otherwise you will become part of the hunted.
@RedBaron Try reading Liquid Lives by Zygmund Bauman, and see what you conclude then.
RedBaron · M
@sunriselover No thanks. Me first ahead of everyone else is still selfish.

As a married person, you should understand that.
@RedBaron Bauman takes the view that until 1500 the concept of Utopia was was not known, and society showed no signs of improvement. You just went to heaven when you die. From then the concept of improving society was born. But all made made Utopia have failed. Just look at the USA today, or the pathetic UK that is in decay.
Consumerism is now in the world of self improvement. His books are worth reading, if only to provoke thought.
in10RjFox · M
We have to first understand that this is not the life we wanted. We have been deceived right from our childhood with a promise of a better and brighter future, and everything is a mirage.

So we have to necessarily start taking control of our life and redeem our life from where it's pledged.

https://www.vanguards2030.org/

Only way to do is to set aside all our differences and start uniting towards a common goal.
Try a Zen way of life.

zen: the Artvof Simple Living

by Shinmyo Masuno.

You may not take all his ideas on board, and it should not affect your believe in Gid.
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