I Won't Allow My Future to Be Detroyed By My Past
If You Were To Kick The Person In The Ass That Is The Most Responsible For Your Dysfunction, You Would Never Be Able To Sit Down...
There is one game, which is impossible to win. It doesn’t matter how good at it you become or how much you practice… There can never be a winner when you play the blame game you cause yourself to be stuck at the threshold of your own purgatory. Before moving on, you have to clear away your old thoughts and behaviors. Life is what you make of it, and if you make yourself a victim… A victim is all you will ever be. Because the longer you blame someone else for your inability to function, the longer you will agonize in your own self-made purgatory. To be able to move on, you have to learn to forgive not only the people who have done you wrong, but mostly, you need to be able to forgive yourself. This is, by far, the hardest thing to realize.
There is one game, which is impossible to win. It doesn’t matter how good at it you become or how much you practice… There can never be a winner when you play the blame game you cause yourself to be stuck at the threshold of your own purgatory. Before moving on, you have to clear away your old thoughts and behaviors. Life is what you make of it, and if you make yourself a victim… A victim is all you will ever be. Because the longer you blame someone else for your inability to function, the longer you will agonize in your own self-made purgatory. To be able to move on, you have to learn to forgive not only the people who have done you wrong, but mostly, you need to be able to forgive yourself. This is, by far, the hardest thing to realize.
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