The answer is simple, but you don't like the answer so you come up with this multipage explanation through

an obtuse labyrinth of reasoning that you alone can follow

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Reject · 26-30, M

Of course there is pain, and loss, but the suffering is caused by trying to control reality. Clinging to the ways you want things to be, and not enjoying the way they are.

DDonde · 31-35, M

@Reject It can be very hard to change your view

Reject · 26-30, M

@DDonde Abandoning comfort is hard, but it is only in discomfort you can grow.