The answer is simple, but you don't like the answer so you come up with this multipage explanation through

an obtuse labyrinth of reasoning that you alone can follow

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SW-User

Yep or excuses... That make no good in the end

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SW-User

@DDonde why

SW-User

@DDonde hahaha didn't mean to be nosy, just i guess didn't know what to say

DDonde · 31-35, M

@SW-User Haha no worries, didn't see this. Just been working on a project with teammates this week and spent hours working on it today.

Reject · 26-30, M

Of course there is pain, and loss, but the suffering is caused by trying to control reality. Clinging to the ways you want things to be, and not enjoying the way they are.

DDonde · 31-35, M

@Reject It can be very hard to change your view

Reject · 26-30, M

@DDonde Abandoning comfort is hard, but it is only in discomfort you can grow.

SW-User

Yes sometimes people don't want to accept the simple answer at least when I try I find that to be the case.

DDonde · 31-35, M

@SW-User Or even better they go around in circles just to validate what you said but in so many more words

SW-User

@DDonde yes 😣

SW-User

Saying so much to say so little.

DDonde · 31-35, M

@SW-User In order for their explanation to make sense

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

Was it me 🥺

DDonde · 31-35, M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart no no no

V00doo

This is why I dont like people who talk.

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V00doo

@DDonde As a way to deflect or make themselves appear more clever?

DDonde · 31-35, M

@V00doo Sometimes. Or sometimes I think they just really don't want to accept a certain answer so they'll come up with any other answer besides the one they don't like.

V00doo

@DDonde Yep.

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