im not my past

my boyfriend and i have had some discussions about my past because it wasn’t great, i was lonely and i took up seeking attention and validation from other people, that got me into some situations and we had to talk about them, but i feel like to him that all i ever will be is my past but i am a fully changed person. i don’t know what to do, every time i think about it i want to throw up, especially now :((

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LasagnaPiranha · 26-30, M

From what it seems, you haven’t completely changed. I feel that if you have changed for the better you would know your worth and wouldn’t worry about your boyfriend leaving you because if his feelings for you aren’t strong enough to stay with you then maybe a relationship with him isn’t worth it. He may also have some insecurities that he may be burying, maybe be a little more introspective with yourself and encourage him to do the same.

valzgore · 16-17, F

@LasagnaPiranha i’m not worried about him leaving me, i’m just upset with the fact that he has to know what i was like, and i guess i just have a fear that he doesn’t see me for anything else, it’s more of an insecurity thing than anything else, but thanks for the advice

LasagnaPiranha · 26-30, M

@valzgore He may have fears just as you do, I hope you guys have a fruitful dialogue!

valzgore · 16-17, F

@LasagnaPiranha thank you😊

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