LucyA · 16-17, F
I felt like this for a while back in year 7, it's a horrible feeling and it takes time to understand what you are. Trust me you have to be patient, it will be difficult I know it always is, but try and make it through what this is <3
SW-User
So... You want to be androgynous? Do it, then. Act however you want. Is it weird? In the way that it isn't the standard, sure, but who cares? Why be standard when you can be custom?
And if you don't like who you are, then change. You're not the same person you were 5 years ago. You probably won't be the same person 5 years from now. You'll grow, your interests will change, you'll have new experiences, see new perspectives... You'll get lost, you'll be found, and one day you'll wake up and discover who you were always meant to be.
So don't worry too much. It's meant to be uncomfortable, but it's only for a little while.
And if you don't like who you are, then change. You're not the same person you were 5 years ago. You probably won't be the same person 5 years from now. You'll grow, your interests will change, you'll have new experiences, see new perspectives... You'll get lost, you'll be found, and one day you'll wake up and discover who you were always meant to be.
So don't worry too much. It's meant to be uncomfortable, but it's only for a little while.
boombox · F
thinking about “what you are” is something you probably shouldnt take much note of, but if you are curious and truly wonna know, i suggest researching on “genderfluid” maybe thatll help :)
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
That sounds like being genderfluid.