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What's so bad about one keeping to themselves?

I was asked if I have always been this quiet. For majority of my life, yes.

Why do people make this out to be a bad thing?

I had literally just come back from lunch, in which I sat and socialized with 5 other people. I came back into the work training on time, and waited for the next session to begin.

I was sitting quietly to myself and that's when the comment was made. Mind you, we'd been in groups, exchanging info, and learning the entire day .

Some people need a few moments to themselves.
Why is that so hard to understand?
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curiosi · 61-69, F
People wish to control others. When we keep to ourselves, have boundaries etc. it makes this task harder.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@curiosi she didn't say it in a malicious way or anything. I just get tired of hearing the same comment over and over again, especially when I am trying harder than usual to chit chat and socialize with people
curiosi · 61-69, F
@iamnikki Most are not aware of how they wish to control others, hence "she didn't say it in a malicious way".