Its a social.political.economic MACRO problem but people are individually pressured to solve this and NO its not ok this happens, but in a vicious inhumane world that would never try to STOP this politically with tax money etc...
we kinda have no choice. Very similar to hiring discrimination that shapes a workforce but IGNORES all locked out...by the very system that makes it so perfect for the acceptable ones (yeah right??!!)
So it becomes an anguished personal decision and it should never come to this and we're all stuck there nevertheless...
I cant ever help either...
and I will soon be joining them I fear. I will need more and people will continue to IGNORE...
Its happened before. I was never one of the "acceptable" ones, the kind that can pump up this abusive twisted system from my "good fortune". Never did it happen The world thinks its supposed to trash my kind.