do any of you not desire love?

I think there might be some who have been so betrayed by the people who were supposed to love them, be it parents, siblings, friends, life partners......that they no longer trust enough to let anyone get close enough to hurt them that way again. That can feel a lot like having no desire to be loved. Sometimes it becomes a different thing, like anorexia nervosa, or some other self harming thing.......cutting, drugs, overeating, doing things that are dangerous.