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Serenitree · F
I think there might be some who have been so betrayed by the people who were supposed to love them, be it parents, siblings, friends, life partners......that they no longer trust enough to let anyone get close enough to hurt them that way again. That can feel a lot like having no desire to be loved. Sometimes it becomes a different thing, like anorexia nervosa, or some other self harming thing.......cutting, drugs, overeating, doing things that are dangerous.
adamlevinemine97 · 26-30, F
vincent100 · 26-30, M
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vincent100 · 26-30, M
@adamlevinemine97 whaaattt ?? No, how ?? Love will make those who love you hurt, it will feel like you shot their heart in the face and spit in it and you will NEVER EVER see them again ever
adamlevinemine97 · 26-30, F
Well dam you blew mine out the water, I mean when love is lost death feels like a viable option
vincent100 · 26-30, M
@adamlevinemine97 Yes it does but think about it you feel alone and empty even if your surrounded by ppl , its dark cloud that covers you but when the cloud goes away you will see that you were NEVER alone. Right now what you are going through it hurts deep inside I felt it too but it doesn't rain everyday
HelpIsNotOnItsWay · 26-30, F
adamlevinemine97 · 26-30, F
@HelpIsNotOnItsWay i hear you sista
Serenitree · F
@HelpIsNotOnItsWay are we speaking here of romantic love, only? Or all kinds of love?
HelpIsNotOnItsWay · 26-30, F
@Serenitree Most forms. Though I accept love of friendship from one very close friend as we have sailed the biggest waves of our lives together.
adamlevinemine97 · 26-30, F
@SW-User i feel you on that, i'm kinda apathticccccc
adamlevinemine97 · 26-30, F
SW-User
@SW-User 🙁 You will, relax
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
SW-User
i love family and friends. as for a s.o. its rare for me to feel that way. i have deeply cared about someone before. i can say it truly can harm you. some people dont want love. they seek other pleasures. but to truly love another that seems to hate you. thats torture.
SW-User
everyone desires....secretly
Serenitree · F
@SW-User why do you think is a secret?
SW-User
@Serenitree not secret, I mean some people deny it or hide it but they still desire it
Serenitree · F
@SW-User ah, yes. I'm sure there are plenty who won't admit needing and wanting to be loved, because it might leave them vulnerable.
NigelDoes · 56-60, M
I don't know anyone who doesn't.
I desire it, but it is all fake!!!
Goralski · 56-60, M
20 min of lust will do
bijouxbroussard · F