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SW-User
I know the feeling. I'm married. If my wife gets mad about something, there's the possibility that she will get mad at just about everything, and I feel it is aimed always at me.
CookieMonster280 · 22-25, F
thats what its like with my dad. if im talking to my mum he butts in and says something when i wasnt asking for his opinion. then i say im not talking to him and he says "well im talking to you." and if i dont zip my lips we both just get very annoyed and he would complain about something about me, just to pick on me. like if my room was messy. and if he comes in my room he always looks around to see if i have any plates or bowls and it pisses me off

SW-User
@CookieMonster280: it seems like when they get mad, everything around them sets them off.
CookieMonster280 · 22-25, F
@RisenStrength: exactly that. it's really annoying. they need to know that not everything is perfect and how they want it to be

SW-User
@CookieMonster280: my advice is that when it happens, say nothing, do nothing. Go somewhere where you can't be bothered.
CookieMonster280 · 22-25, F
@RisenStrength: unless they follow you to your room. then you just cant avoid it

SW-User
@CookieMonster280: no, you can't, but say little as possible.
CookieMonster280 · 22-25, F
yep. i always try that. but still. no matter what i say, there is always something wrong

SW-User
@CookieMonster280: there always will be, unfortunately