So last month

I told my son and his girlfriend that I wanted my house back and March was the date to be moved out.

My son panicked and we worked out a deal. He is either enrolled and going to school full time or working in a career directed job. Otherwise, he is paying $300 a month. If he starts and quits, it's $300 a month. He is almost 30 and working as a pizza delivery driver. He has all these goals he wants to reach, but ends up spending his time smoking weed and playing video games. He really needs to take control of his future.

But his girlfriend needs to move. I want my spaces back. I don't believe she is still together with my son. They rarely do things together anymore and my son was more than happy to have her move out. I think once she is out, that relationship will be over.

I am excited thinking about how I can have all my kitchen cabinets and drawers back. How I can have my craft room back. How I can enjoy the rest of my house again.

I can even move my altar into another part of the house and get my bedroom back in order.

I hate putting my foot down, but I am much happier with my decision.