Why is Polyamory so looked down on by society?

Is it that much of a problem to love multiple people so deeply in their eyes?

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Eternity · 26-30, M

In ancient times it was to prevent conflicts over women.

Incels are dangerous even in modern times; imagine how much more dangerous they would have been in a time where there were far less barriers to violence.

Three men have all the women in the tribe? Well the 30 incels will most likely end up murdering those three men, his children, and then divvying up the women amongst themselves for raping.

Nowadays there really isn't a good reason to not be polyamorous truth be told. There are complications sure but they can be worked around with any amount of persistence and thought.

Rosiechick13 · 26-30, F

@Eternity my guys share us and we have a blast 🤷

in10RjFox · M

@Eternity women as property of men is deep rooted in the culture of every religion which needs to be erased from the constitution itself and marriage institutions should be abolished.

in10RjFox · M

@Rosiechick13 the concept of sharing must never be there.. sharing comes only when someone can be owned. Nobody must be allowed own another and are free to be with another at their free will.

Eternity · 26-30, M

@in10RjFox shiiiit, the institution of marriage being abolished would be far more beneficial to men than women lol.

I'm all for it!

Rosiechick13 · 26-30, F

@in10RjFox I think you misunderstood what I meant by sharing. We aren't owned at all we all share ourselves with eachother.

in10RjFox · M

@Rosiechick13 No I did not. Get deep to investigate .. "what is Sharing ?"...

And then ask yourself do we have the ability to share .. and by allowing ourselves to share what does the other get or consume of us .. and what do we get in return ?

It is then you would realise how we have been made as objects and how we objectify ourselves, without any objection.

Also compare yours to sharing a pizza or a bottle of beer ..

in10RjFox · M

@Rosiechick13 Also I get what you mean .. and understand your expression, as traditionally we have been made to think of love of love & sex as exclusive to one person and you are saying you are not exclusive to any and that you are a shared resource.

But think of it this way and ask what is the difference between making love 100 times with one partner as against having one time sex with 100 partners ?

Rosiechick13 · 26-30, F

@in10RjFox I've had sex with my people equally 🤷. It's not a competition 🤷. We just love eachother and are happy