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There’s no flirtatious bone left in me ?

Around three years ago, I started noticing a shift in myself and the way I perceive things. In the past, I used to be quite flirty and sassy with everyone, finding pleasure in pleasing and seducing others. Everything changed. Now, I feel a complete lack of interest in people, and flirting is the last thing on my mind. That spark of seduction that once defined me seems to have vanished forever. It's strange because I used to enjoy playful interactions, even though I'm aware that statement might sound a bit off.

I suppose this happens a lot once you start really going into adulthood. I’m not a young reckless adult anymore.
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RoxClymer · 41-45, M
honestly, I was about your age when this happened to me the ROI on serious relationships was Absolute Zero and Just couldn't do it anymore

took a few yrs but some interest returned but was happy with having real friendships and fuck buddies separately
Strawbsy · 26-30, F
@RoxClymer What does ROI mean ?
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
@Strawbsy return on investment

I was putting in more energy than I was getting out, of the whole process of dating
Strawbsy · 26-30, F
@RoxClymer I wasn’t sure since it’s a marketing definition
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
@Strawbsy sry, I tend to do that, yes it confuses ppl, just how my brain works