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There’s no flirtatious bone left in me ?

Around three years ago, I started noticing a shift in myself and the way I perceive things. In the past, I used to be quite flirty and sassy with everyone, finding pleasure in pleasing and seducing others. Everything changed. Now, I feel a complete lack of interest in people, and flirting is the last thing on my mind. That spark of seduction that once defined me seems to have vanished forever. It's strange because I used to enjoy playful interactions, even though I'm aware that statement might sound a bit off.

I suppose this happens a lot once you start really going into adulthood. I’m not a young reckless adult anymore.
Mardrae · F
Omg….you’re SO young! Maybe it’s something hormonal or even depression that has made the change?
Strawbsy · 26-30, F
@Mardrae that is very much possible ! I would love to be where I once was 😅
Mardrae · F
@Strawbsy I am like that too, but I’m old, ugly and don’t date anymore so it doesn’t bother me whether I have a sex drive or not.
Strawbsy · 26-30, F
@Mardrae Oh I feel you 100% ! I’m not old but I feel undatable. 😅
I think it all comes down to it.
Insecurity = Low sex drive = no will to flirt.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
honestly, I was about your age when this happened to me the ROI on serious relationships was Absolute Zero and Just couldn't do it anymore

took a few yrs but some interest returned but was happy with having real friendships and fuck buddies separately
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
@Strawbsy return on investment

I was putting in more energy than I was getting out, of the whole process of dating
Strawbsy · 26-30, F
@RoxClymer I wasn’t sure since it’s a marketing definition
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
@Strawbsy sry, I tend to do that, yes it confuses ppl, just how my brain works
Mktonght · 61-69, M
Smile, you are maturing, but you are still very much a "youngan".
There can be a difference between being friendly and enjoying other and being a constant flirt.
Glad you are growing up however life is to short not to still have fun and be sociable if not a reckless flirt.
Hmmm...perhaps you wish to *be* seduced, rather than being the seduc[u]er[/u]...? Has the huntress switched to being the prey?
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Strawbsy · 26-30, F
@SomeMichGuy I could be a coach in seduction too while we’re at it 😂
@Strawbsy Why not? Guys do this, and a few women coach guys.
I never had the skills for flirting.
SW-User
It does wane at times

 
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