Those in relationships?

Dya take time off with your partner and do things together?
Or how do you spend your holidays if its seperate from your loved ones?
And if you have kids do you take time off together to have fun with your kids?

Yes i have a lot of questions

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sarabee1995 · 31-35, F

No kids, but my gf and I are just starting to set those patterns and to set the expectations with our families. At holidays for the last two years, we have done the crazy drive to both houses and spending half the time here and half the time there. It's crazy. But in 2025 we have let it be known that we will be splitting holidays and visiting one house or the other, but not both on any given holiday.

This will be hard for the families and on us because we are both very close to our families.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@sarabee1995 i absolutely understand and we took both houses separately as it wss just too much for us.
Its so much better now not splitting our time as we can fully focus on both families at their given times
Hope it gets better for you both this year hun