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Loretta78 · 46-50, F
The best thing I‘ve found here is my longterm-friend. 

Loretta78 · 46-50, F
@Renkon The first requirement is that there has to be a „good chemistry“ between us.
The second requirement is that both parts have to work on this friendship:
Almost daily communication, to be there for each other in good times and in bad times, no force, understanding for each other, honesty, trust…
It seems that I am more made for longterm-friendships than for shallow relationships.
I had already a longterm friendship on SW. It lasted 6 years and we communicated daily, too. And I think for an „online-friendship“ is this a really long time.
When this friendship ended, I never thought that I would find one day a longterm friend again.
But it has happened to me AGAIN and I am very glad and thankful for it.
You have to treat such a friendship like a precious treasure, like a very special gift.
That’s how it keeps such a friendship alive.
The second requirement is that both parts have to work on this friendship:
Almost daily communication, to be there for each other in good times and in bad times, no force, understanding for each other, honesty, trust…
It seems that I am more made for longterm-friendships than for shallow relationships.
I had already a longterm friendship on SW. It lasted 6 years and we communicated daily, too. And I think for an „online-friendship“ is this a really long time.

When this friendship ended, I never thought that I would find one day a longterm friend again.
But it has happened to me AGAIN and I am very glad and thankful for it.
You have to treat such a friendship like a precious treasure, like a very special gift.

That’s how it keeps such a friendship alive.
