Eh, although a lot of people were at the singles event yesterday...there was really only 1 or 2 women i was attracted to and they got too much male
Attention so it was almost not even worth trying lol
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I think it's important to be attracted to a potential partner but I don't think attraction will keep a relationship someone's mind, communication, respect, and finding someone who has what you need in or lack within yourself will be a great partner it promotes balance but this is my personal opinion
Changeisgonnacome · 61-69, F
I wonder if anyone knows the real pdyche and social effects of putting a whole lot of needy people together so they can prey upon one another for attention and acknowledgement.
I only ever attended these things after I got dumped or found out someone wasn't what I thought-. And I was grieving.
I only ever attended these things after I got dumped or found out someone wasn't what I thought-. And I was grieving.
MntoNc · 36-40, M
@Changeisgonnacome well to be fair i dont think everyone is like that. Thats kind of a bad way of saying it. Whats wrong with looking for someone youre compatible with?
smiler2012 · 56-60
sorry it was a waste of time but do not give up you can alway go againand may be more successful[mntonc]
MntoNc · 36-40, M
@smiler2012 i think i might just quit with meetup (not sure if youve heard of it or not). I enjoy doing some of the activities i host but deep down i know its really just to find someone.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@MntoNc 🤷♂️well really that is your decision if you find it is not working for you