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Can you just be friends without any ulterior motive?

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@HeilHitler
Your words certainly talk for themselves. Have a nice one.

Edit : thank you for the block, and your dyke remark just proves your poor personality. Have a nice ignorant life !
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SW-User
@HeilHitler WTF. You sound ignorant.

I don’t welcome male attention.
I set boundaries and I’m not afraid to say “NO” when it’s needed.
I have done it on several occasions and I have received positive feedbacks. That is the exact reason why I believe in men/women friendships. Not because you find me naive but because I have made sincere and honest friendships with males over the years.

It’s all about mutual respect and boundaries.

If in your mid 40’s you haven’t managed to make your male friends respect you, that’s ON YOU.

By the way, Dyke is a derogatory term but as Sapph said, your words talk for themselves.
SW-User
Can they just be friends without asking me to hang out or wanting to talk all the time?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
once i was. in high school. he had a gf and i honestly had no hesitation having him come over to do homework together. he prob would have done the work with his gf if she was at the same school in the same classes and she would have been more than welcomed. They are married now.
@NiftyWhite once you were, not anymore?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline Well we just disconnected with life and don’t see one another but i know if i showed up at his house tomorrow we would chat like friends like no time ever passed.
SW-User
That's what friends are
@SW-User yeah :)
@xixgun :)
I try really hard but everyone usually ends up wanting more from me than what I am willing to give.

Just friends would be nice for a change.

I do run into one every once in awhile but they are short lived.
ABCDEF7 · M
There should not be any sort of motive behind a friendship, it's true when it just happens.
@ABCDEF7 agree
Axelerator · 31-35, M
There will always be the underlying attraction. Perhaps a partial friendship is all that’s possible
@Axelerator honest answer 👏
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Yes and if you don't have an "ulterior motive" then you're probably a true friend.
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
If there is a physical attraction, probably not. If two people just get along , then yes.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Yes! Hey read my latest post please ... I need some help!
DisturbOne · 41-45, M
Well yah ! You’ve never needed something too ?
@DisturbOne mostly
I don't see why not
@Justiceforall glad to know that
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Yes, that's what a true friend is
Chevy454 · 46-50, M
@Chevy454 depends on?
SW-User
Yes. I’ve done it.
Cheesecake · 61-69, M
I really think so.
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@suppppppppp good 😁 at least you have clarity
SilkWeb · 26-30, F
Most men can't even though they say otherwise. Lol
@SilkWeb hmm
eMortal · M
People are not perfect. They don't always plan on using their friends. Shit happens and the first that comes in mind is "let me call my friend, maybe he/she can help"
@eMortal you did not understand my question :)
eMortal · M
@eMortal when you are in trouble it's natural to ask for help, but you should not have some motive behind your friendship
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
I believe so. Unless you count not wanting to be lonely or wanting to have fun an alternative motive.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Sure. That doesn't mean that feelings won't develop though.
@DDonde feelings are dangerous 😁
Yes, and usually am.
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@suppppppppp Being a libtard stops me from being transphobic.
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@RogueLoner most ,not all
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