I think why it would bother me so much is because I was beaten by an ex husband when I was young, and I was bleeding from my kidney and had to go to the ER and they gave me a catheter...and the nurse that put it in was a girl that I went to high school with and we didn't get along in school at all..and then another time I was going to a therapist for what I went through with my ex, and I referred my best friend to the therapist. She came to me a few weeks later and told me word for word what I had talked about to the therapist in our sessions! I lost a lot of trust in doctors after that, and I always figured that the doctors talked about their patients to their spouse or friends.