It is ok - but constantly hearing someone's woes can drain the listener. Can't be an emotional dumping ground all the time

I think you should post whatever you want...there are those who will choose to read it.


As for me, I’ve learned over the years that people are more likely to read about something funny or sexual.

Some days I write for myself other days I just write.

To me, hearing about other people's struggles isn't a burden. If I can help, I will.

The burden is when you try to help them with their struggle(s) and they make no effort. I mean, everyone has some issues going on in their lives and they don't need more issues.

In the real world I would but I’m here for entertainment. To escape serious things and I’m not a psychologist so I avoid it all and skip to mindless things.

Some people are more sensitive than others, more empathic, so they can feel the pain of others more acutely. If their cup is already fall, it could overflow.

My sister is going through this. She's had an indiagnosed condition of incessant leg pain and stiffness EVERY day, no answers. No doctor can figure it out. My family member who granted, lost two of their immediate family members within a year, has never asked her once personally how she's doing. The two family members passed two years ago. He says he can't be around 'negativity' and needs to think of his life. 🙁😯 She's felt like she's going to die many times, so to say you can't even hear ANYTHING about her condition seems unbelievable to me.

What's going on. Tell me of you need me.

We can't talk about anything like this, though. SW doesn't want to hear anything about it.

We can't struggle with anything because people will block us or just chant that we need help like a stuck record, rather than accepting that, maybe talking about it is our help and coping mechanism.

I could have posted this about someone I know 😂

I'm not always the best at advice, but I'm always there to listen if getting things out helps others.

Yes it shits me

Takes me enough time to look after myself without some little bitch being a cry baby

Not a burden, however, sometimes ppl have the mistaken belief we can fix their problems..we are not shrinks!

You are very caring.

Absolutely not.