Have you ever had to break up with your doctor?

I’ve had it with my family doctor so I’m taking my kid to a new doc today. But first I have to go and get his records... we’ve been going there for many years and he’s a nice guy, but not the best doctor. It’s going to be so awkward. What do I say?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

LadyGrace · Best Comment

Okay, what you can do is this. Call the doctor's office ahead of time and tell the receptionist that is rude, that you're calling to let her know that you will be by today to pick up a copy of your and the child's file, as you want to keep records in your personal file at home, as well. Say nothing more. Except please have them ready when I come. She cannot refuse you the records as you have the right to get a free copy of them by law, anytime you wish. She is not supposed to charge you! And I would let her know that, only if she says something about charging you.

Fallflower · 46-50, F

Thank you. I took your advice. Just called. What I needed to remember is that I don’t have to give any awkward explanations. Just ask for the records cuz they’re mine! @LadyGrace

LadyGrace ·

@Fallflower exactly. Oh honey I'm so glad you have it settled in your mind. I'm so happy I could help.