Will you leave your significant other when they are diagnosed with diabetes? *I won't but i feel guilty of even thinking about it. I'm just scared. *

@Allelse he has another disease that could weakens his immune system, and he is almost always tired and with the diabetes in the mix i do not know what our future lives will be

@MegumiTakani13 Do you love him?

@Allelse of course...i am not afraid of the hardships the disease will bring, i am scared i'd lose him

@MegumiTakani13 Awwwwwww! It must be very difficult.

@Allelse especially when my mother is guilt tripping me, saying something like we will not a have a full life, i understand where my mom is coming from, his mom is racist towards me and wants him to leave me...so i think they are even

@MegumiTakani13 Bloody hell. Mothers!!! I tell you they can be a real bugger. But look you have each other, you love each other. But there is a problem and you're worried about his health, could there be some psychological problems too? With him?

@Allelse could be.

@MegumiTakani13 That's something to consider, but luckily there are some great counselors out there but above all, he has you by his side.

I am trying, i know my mother is just looking out for me, she said she doesn't want me to someday have a sick husband and racists inlaws

@MegumiTakani13 Hahaha! Yeah I wouldn't want that for my daughter either. And its good that you can see from your Mummy's point of view.

Yeah, thats another reason why i am scared...they thought i will just be another asian gold digger, but here i am losing sleep thinking about how to learn to care for a diabetic. I am ready to sacrifice for my love for their son