Is it hard or rare for you to feel empathy or remorse?

I've felt like that with age, but having said that I think i've been carrying a lot of baggage that isn't mine in terms of how people view the world. I sometimes wonder where i picked it up and where our innocent sense of empathy goes.

Is it through wisdom to not care as much, or is it a fault we let into our network that became a part of the system itself?
These are the questions i have as of recent.