I wonder if loneliness has an effect on the psyche?

@Eddiesolds [b][c=#4C0073]i think most people do which is why I don’t understand why people sabotage great relationships[/c][/b]

@VioletRayne I dont get it neither.

@VioletRayneI have learned that many of us THINK we know what we are doing in our relationships,especially as younger people, we THINK we know what love is just because we want to be with a person, set up a home with that person, pro-create, be exclusive with, etc. We called it love but we had no clue what true love was so of course the relationship had to disintegrate. People get into relationships for the wrong reasons often with the wrong people. If we are lucky...at some point we really DO understand what love is in it's purest form...without all the drama, silly expectations, disappointments and insecurities

@Fernie [c=#4C0073]thats partnof being human. We learn n we grow. Just gotta find someone willing to learn n grow with us.[/c]

@VioletRayne That was in response to your comment " which is why I don’t understand why people sabotage great relationships" I mean we DONT always sabotage...we just don't know wtf we are doing. I am twice your age and it took me and many of my friends that long to realize what we were doing wrong

@Fernie [b][c=#4C0073]i don’t mean people who genuinely try. I mean there are a lot of people out there pretending simply because they don’t want to be alone. Jumping from relationship to relationship hurting people simply for their own selfish desires.[/c][/b]

@VioletRayne Yes, my point exactly...many of us get into relationships for the wrong reasons and then it falls apart because there is NO real love there. There is need