Wiseacre · F
I kinda get what ur saying, however this way of thinking doesn’t serve everyone. Life is complicated and chaotic, and painful. The first sentence in ur second paragraph is incorrect. Most, if not all of my bad feelings stem from how i was treated by my parents. This had far reaching consequences I’m still dealing with.
Reject · 31-35, M
@StarLily Thank you for your comment! It’s always nice to know when someone can appreciate the things I write. It’s my hope when I take the time to post on here. It’s only my journey, and what has worked for me on it, but I’d like to think we’re all human and could use something from the experience of others.
StarLily · 51-55, F
@Reject I share a lot of your thoughts... it was nice to read something I relate to.
And yes, some may not share or understand your experiences... but for one person it may be exactly what they needed to hear. So don't stop writing and sharing!
And yes, some may not share or understand your experiences... but for one person it may be exactly what they needed to hear. So don't stop writing and sharing!
I also think it’s our heart’s way of asking for help. For reassurance. For comfort. For love.
I love that part.
Reject · 31-35, M
@StarLily Your encouragement means a lot to me! I will continue to do my best. If it helps even one person, then it was worthwhile. You help someone, you help everyone.
For that bit of writing I thought of what everyone looks for when they’re hurting. Most people stop at what they think will solve the problem without questioning why they think that. Our heart has a somewhat atypical way of communicating, found in how it’s pain is meant to instruct us, but it’s also very consistent in doing this and can be understood to one who cares enough to accept even the harsher parts of life. They’re not meant to be avoided or fought against, they’re meant to be loved.
For that bit of writing I thought of what everyone looks for when they’re hurting. Most people stop at what they think will solve the problem without questioning why they think that. Our heart has a somewhat atypical way of communicating, found in how it’s pain is meant to instruct us, but it’s also very consistent in doing this and can be understood to one who cares enough to accept even the harsher parts of life. They’re not meant to be avoided or fought against, they’re meant to be loved.
Lsreading4200 · 31-35, F
Reject · 31-35, M
@Lsreading4200 That sounds like you’re doing just fine to me! It shows you’re willing to adapt which is very important. Don’t worry about keeping up with anything other than the pace your heart needs to feel loved by you.
Reject · 31-35, M
@Lsreading4200 There you go! The more you can love the little things, like getting ready for a holiday, the more proof there is that you never needed anything more. So I’d say you’re doing great.
Wiseacre · F
All ur “questions” are repetitive. Ur a preacher man🤔
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