@Babal it takes a lot of sensitivity, thin lines, preparation and also checking with participants beforehand whether they are coming with the right mindset and for the right purpose - I have the fear that someone, man or woman might lash out and begin shouting hahaha so I need to process.
And like I already wrote about, I need to find support to do it together with some man who is equally ready.
I have a friend who is in this healing meetings but he is gay. Despite I fully love him and his work, I would like a man relating with women in sexuality too, to reach certain agreements, concepts and depths. I will see, I will go slow for that.

@BlueVeins you know what, the best way would be perhaps to create a small scaled physical circle, few people and controlled environment, and then gain feedback from there. Then take it online.

@Boeing Ah Boeing, I don't know. I've met quite a few who were completely innocent in the process. Victims of (legacy terms) Psychopaths and Sociopaths (same diag now) who don't need to apologize for anything. They just need to heal. It takes time .. and often a doc who is familiar with the scenario.

Some are true predators. It isn't always black & white.

But indeed, I assume you're just trying to deal in the average - which there's nothing wrong with that at all.

That said, you would be surprised at the number of victims of these people out there.

@Magicianzini I'm not sure how I feel about that professional. Those safe professional tactics are hurtful in their own ways. I really want it to be real more than anything.
But I will consider it, thank you!

And you're right about the victims having fresh memory. I'm keeping this one. Thank you for your interest and sharing these.

I think if there're too many guidelines and safety measures, it can turn dry.

Then too little and can endanger everyone involved.

@Magicianzini okay I see now. Yes, I can see that, these people... Well some of those people need to apologise to themselves, for allowing things to happen to them.
Not all.
But I do not wish to break it down to the point that the feeling /message and idea gets lost in categories.

It needs to be raw and felt, not overanalysed. Perhaps that's my objection with involving professionals.

Maybe the right professional - person.
Some are naturally born and sculpted through experience. I prefer those, who see and meet people in their natural environments and not in the examination Office.

OH MY GOD all of my prejudices and preconceptions regarding professional trauma informed therapists in a single message.

I am sorry @Magicianzini I feel like you are one of them!!!

And I am the wild dog here.

Excuse me.

@ABCDEF7 it is more universal traumas than personalized. I have experienced a few circles and that is how I am inspired ... It needs to be described and explained better.
When I have more time, I can write an example. This can help.

@NerdyPotato I see all of it coming up talking to my fantasy boyfriend through chat. It is not real, because there are so many things in between us, so many voices that it seems impossible to listen to each other. We can, we listen, we try. But it feel like a volcano, instead of my days that feel more like a lake...