The guy I was meant to go on a date with cancelled because he was too anxious

At first he lied and said it was work, but later he confessed he is a really anxious person and is seeking help for that. He assured me he wants to meet and was really apologetic.

My initial reaction is to try and help him, but I do this so often and end up with projects rather than partners.

I'm so conflicted rn.

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Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F

Idk, I have anxiety and I used to always need a drink to do stuff. I kind of admire that he was honest. Kinda cute. Worth a shot if you like him

Kuronekko · 41-45, F

@Notsimilarreally I still get anxiety from time to time. It just sounds kinda severe and I am looking for someone who has been through therapy, not someone who hasn't done the work yet. I tend to turn into their therapist otherwise.

Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F

@Kuronekko oh, well in that case, he probably isn’t what you’re looking for.