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Have you made peace in your life? Are you taking for granted people know how important they are to you?

Do you think you will ever will reach out to mend those fences - put the past hurts aside? If you reach out to someone and they don't respond, will it stop you from moving on to the next?

Our life on this earth is fragile. It can be whisked away in an instant.

We are not promised tomorrow and recent events happening in our world should drive that fact home to every single one of us. Our demise might come in the guise of a big red bus or in mother nature's fury. No one knows.

When it's my time, I want to leave with a clear slate. I don't want to leave without apologizing and mending fences, or without telling those I love and care for, what they've meant to me, and how they have positively impacted my life. I don't want any unresolved issues weighing me down. I don't want to regret not saying what I should have, while I still had the time. I don't want to rehash the past and all the baggage that goes with it - I simply seek to be free of the burden of the unresolved.

A couple conversations have proven difficult, but they were freeing and in the end they were positive. I can't control who accepts nor who declines, but I can find peace in knowing I have done my best.
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@LadyBronte I know. My diligence came from AA.

Once you’ve approached the erred-against and made as loving and humble an apology as you can, it’s no longer in your hands. Make it plain that person will always be welcome at your door and let it go.

LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Mamapolo2016 I guess I hope they know that, but I can't presume to say for sure. Congratulations on what I can only believe is AA success. That's a difficult road to have traveled.
@LadyBronte To be honest, it wasn’t and isn’t as difficult as I first thought. I was remembering yesterday how when I was in a meeting with the first counselor, I was explaining to him that I wouldn’t require as much work as most because I was cooperative.

And HE said. “Nice! How’s that working out for you?”

Busted. I laugh now.

One thing they teach you is that you are not in control of life events, tragedies, riots, and so on. You cannot direct the lives of others, or their emotions. You can do what you can do. No more. No less.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Mamapolo2016 That is truer than true. We can only do our best.