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Hospital tips for a very obese patient plus mistakes we made

I will set the scene
My wife is a very large lady well over 600lbs during Christmas and after her health declined rapidly. She put on a huge amount of weight in a short space of time 20 kilos in 10 days and her skin had swollen hard area that weren’t there before.
We’re currently residing in the uk.The doctor on a zoom call as she couldn’t get out of bed easily put this down to overeating at Christmas. Six weeks later with steady weight gain her breathing problems getting worse but after a district nurse come out to take bloods he saw her state contacted the doctor and a bariatric ambulance was called and we were off,
Our mistakes so far, taking the doctors explanation and not getting them to come and see her as the receptionist had said they don’t do home visits often.

Things we got right these things you need if you have a larger partner or relative
We had a recent accurate weight( she’s weighed once a week) titis is very important for medical doses etc and the hospital scale only went up to
287 lbs. She was 740 pounds or 52 stone

We had a planned route out of the property which worked heavy use of towels for support.

We had a large capacity wheelchair .

We had an emergency bag, meds lotions good toilet paper antiseptic wipes long t shirt style night wear etc

That part went reasonably smoothly and the paramedic team were fantastic
I will continue you the next part in the hospital later
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Willomk1 · 46-50, M
Ward
Then as we go up to the ward an absolute angel told me about the carer scheme which allows a carer onto the ward at any time. That was a total breakthrough.
SO she’s Wheeled onto the ward you can see the look on some of the nurses faces and I do understand a patient like that does require more work but this is where the carer pass came in.
Make yourself useful so with the pass I could come in early each morning and get her ready for the day washed, toileted apply creams etc without disturbing the nurses.You will know your partner and how to move the with more ease and used of large towels. I did the same in the evening getting her ready for bed.This and my wife’s ability to talk and listen to anyone endeared
Us to the staff and she was seen by most as a lovely fat lady not fat useless lump.