Is it something to do with being a teenager or monogamy love is boring?

Have you ever went through that? I feel like it doesn't exist within me to settle down with one person.
( I'm not jumping from one person to another 😝 i don't even have friends, but the thought of it)

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

It’s pretty common for people to not want to settle down at a young age. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Hassan · 22-25, M

@WhateverWorks were you like that? And what changed? If not what do you think change people.
For me i don't want to bcz i satisfied myself emotionally, kinda physically by doing excessive exercise, mentally and spiritually. I don't feel like there's a missing half of me, and don't enjoy to involve someone with my life.

Hassan · 22-25, M

@WhateverWorks idk how to explain it but I'm being too critical and harsh. It started a year ago and it's more intense now. I'm finding it too cringy to love hear love words, and see others personal life

WhateverWorks · 36-40

Me when I was younger? I’m not a good example. When I was younger I had abandonment issues, so I had it in my head that I would meet someone else who had similar issues then with our powers combined we would help heal each other and scampered off into the sunset lol (spoiler: that is not how trauma bonding/trauma reenactment plays out 😅😅😅)

I personally don’t believe in the idea of a missing half (soulmates, twin flames etc. none of it) . I used to believe in all that when I was younger then at a certain point changed my mentality about what a healthy relationship/partnership would entail. I’m not in a relationship because he ‘completes me’. We are a blessing to each other’s life though.

@Hassan