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Miram appreciation thread!

Such a kind soul with so much dedication to doing what's right for the SW community and the world.

Post your appreciation for @Miram!

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I love you, Mimi.
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Miram · 31-35, F
For Sinlesss,
I'm genuinely grateful for you.
You're one of those people who can make me smile when I really don't feel like smiling. You have this ridiculous talent for turning absolutely nothing into an inside joke, and somehow we can have an entire conversation about something completely nonsensical and still understand exactly what the other person means without having to justify ourselves. I wouldn't trade that kind of friendship for anything.
But what I appreciate most about you isn't actually the humor or tranquility.
It's the heart underneath it.
You care. Sometimes loudly, sometimes stubbornly, sometimes in ways you probably don't even realize 🤍. You notice when people are hurting. You get angry when someone is cruel to people who can't easily defend themselves. You don't always accept the idea that "that's just how things are" when something is clearly wrong. And despite all the joking, there is a very soft and sincere part of you that always shows up when someone you care about needs it. You grow, change and become better because of that care.
You've also been there for me in little ways that probably didn't seem important to you at the time. A few words when I was overwhelmed. A joke when I needed distraction. A "you're loved and appreciated" when I needed to hear something kind. You may not think much of those moments, but I remember them.
So thank you, Sinless.
Thank you for being my friend for more than a decade..through ups and downs..through clashes and truces. Thank you for making me laugh. Thank you for caring about people. Thank you for being stubborn about the things you believe matter. Thank you for putting a good fight against your own demons for your loved ones. Thank you for somehow becoming one of those people whose presence in my life I simply can't imagine not having anymore.
Don't let that go to your head, though.
You're still smoll.
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@Miram Thank you for all your kind words. I can't tell you how much they mean to me. 🤗
She's a queen. I adore her. She makes the world beautiful.
Miram · 31-35, F
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether

M,
There are people you meet, and then there are the rare few whose presence changes your understanding of friendship entirely. You are one of those people for me.

We were just kids when we met, naive and full of memories and plans. We have had almost life time of memories. What I’m most grateful for isn't a single moment though; it’s the person you are.

Your heart remembers.

You carry the memory of the people and friendships that mattered, even after years have passed. I have seen it when it comes to our mutual loved ones.

You value honesty, trust, and genuine connection over blind loyalty. You have every reason to be cynical, life tests and hurts you more than most of us, yet you still choose love over hate. You keep making room for people, looking for the good in them, and celebrating them. You told me you choose love over hate in EP..and you said it again in SW. And you meant it.

Behind your soothing nature is a deeply sensitive, loyal, and good man. I hope you know that about yourself. When you care, you care completely.

Thank you for a friendship that has never felt like a transaction. Thank you for the jokes, the talks, and even the arguments, and the quiet support.

Thank you for making my life so much warmer just by being in it.

If you ever forget who you are, remember that you make the world better for the people who know you.
I love you, M. I'm so grateful I get to call you my friend.
I'd vote Miram for ruler of the world and feel safe for the first time in my life.
@EldritchFox Same.

Thank you for contributing 🙏
BlueVeins · 26-30
She is a great person with great feet. I would live under totalitarian Miram rule any day. 🥰
BlueVeins · 26-30
@SinlessOnslaught they are a bit on the small side but still lovely
@BlueVeins You got to see her foots and I haven't? 😡
Miram · 31-35, F
@BlueVeins

There is something about knowing you that has always felt intellectually alive. Ever since the very beginning when you used to argue online and we weren't as much close as we are now..You have a mind that refuses to stay in one room, I love it, you move between ideas, subjects and questions with a curiosity that makes even ordinary conversations i have seen you have unexpectedly interesting.

I also love that you can be intensely analytical one moment and completely ridiculous the next, and that neither side ever feels artificial. It blends like art. You have taught me things without trying to teach me, simply by making me look at familiar things differently..esp when we did argue 😐

But what I treasure most is the particular rhythm we've developed over the years, the strange tangents, even the silences, and the effortless familiarity that comes from knowing someone for a long time. You are one of those rare friends whose absence would leave a very specific shape in my life. I'm lucky that shape is filled by you. And I am lucky I have you.

Never change.
Adroneandastrain · 46-50, M
She's the creme de la creme, if we could clone just one of us for the better of the world in general, my choice would be our Miram, she does the work of at least a dozen good hard working souls.
@Adroneandastrain Agree with every word! Thank you for contributing.
Miram · 31-35, F
I will reply to each and everyone when I get back from work today 🤍
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
I don't know her very well but I'm all for raising up other humans when its right, she seems dedicated to making the world a better place and a very strong and brave person. I admire that 😊
@PatientlyWaiting25 Yes, she is.

Thank you
Boeing · 36-40
Miram knows she's appreciated here, but Miram doesn't need to be appreciated here I think. She needs and will be appreciated out there, for doing all the work impeccably and consistently. That is now for her.
@Boeing Many lives are better, thanks to her.

Thanks for contributing 🙏
Miram · 31-35, F
@Boeing

Boeing, you have this unusual way of seeing beyond the obvious person in front of you. :)) I love it. You notice the history underneath people, the things that shaped them, the languages they carry, the wounds and inheritances that quietly follow them through life.

There was this one time you spoke about my ancestors in response to one of my posts. You didn't reduce that story to folklore or something strange about my background :)) you saw it as part of a life that had travelled through generations and you told me that my actions could themselves be a kind of prayer, breaking generational curses and clearing a name.

When I spoke about our ancient language couple years ago, you didn't simply respond to what I said. you recognized something of yourself in it, the feeling of belonging imperfectly to several linguistic worlds, of losing pieces of a language while living through another, of wondering where our limited time should go.

And when I told you I was stepping back from a life of constantly serving, you understood that retreat didn't necessarily mean defeat..you saw the years of giving behind the decision and wished me well for whatever frontier came next.

That is what I am grateful for in you: you listen for the life behind words. You have your own history of movement, languages, places, experiences and searching, and perhaps that is why you recognize in other people the things that don't fit neatly into a sentence.

You give many people the rare feeling of being seen without being dissected, understood without having to explain every layer, and I hope you know how precious that is in this world. Some bonds are built from having the same interests; others are built from recognizing something familiar in the way the other person moves through this strange, finite life. And for that, I am deeply, quietly and loudly grateful that our paths crossed. 🤗🤗
Boeing · 36-40
@Miram I don't know what I've done to deserve this gift of your words really, I feel incompetent in most sentences, even though I do recognize it all.. Thank you. This is one furthermore example of your immense strength to multiply the little good you are finding on your way. You never cease to amaze me..and thank you for this gift. I cherish it.
Magenta · F
@Magenta 🐫 Camel for Amazigh

 
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