@FloorGenAdm I'm not really sure what that means?
I tend to stay in my own lane and mind my own business, everybody is always free to do what they want, that is life.

@DancingStarGoddess
I'm sure there are people out there that think I'm a crappy person, I wouldn't agree, they would think so though.
I just don't like the whole idea of ganging up on someone, don't have to like them, don't have to sing their praises, have no problem reporting someone who is harassing or being terrible to someone else.
Where I draw the line is becoming some kind of crusader and thinking I'm righteous when I'm not worthy to even throw one stone.
I'm not saying this is you, believe me, I've never seen you do anything unkind or had a problem with you it's just my general attitude and my own beliefs.

@DancingStarGoddess
I would agree with this.♥

@beermeplease I don't think anyone should be harassed, but I don't see the point in shaming posts ,my own personal opinion, of course.
I do think it's appropriate to block and report such behavior.

@GunFinger
I'm not talking just about one person targeting someone .
I'm talking about starting a thread and then everybody jumps on the bandwagon...
I'm not really much for naming people

@Justmeraeagain oh ok. That's not good at all. You can pm me or I will just find the thread to understand. I haven't been on much because I am so stressed about someone in real life too.

@GunFinger
I am sorry that you're under stress.
Hope it gets better for you soon.

@FrozenWasteland
I know that I can't change anyone's mind ,I guess I'm not after that.
It just makes me kind of sad to see people attack someone over and over again and it seems unnecessary.

@Justmeraeagain i agree that it can be sad. Some people are nasty and it's unfortunate.

I just choose to put my efforts somewhere i can perhaps make a difference for somebody and, with maybe a couple of rare exceptions, SW ain't that place. So i save my energy and ignore.

There are people here who aren't overly fond of me, for that matter, but other than taking a moment to see if maybe they have a point, i don't spend any energy on them either.

@CrazyMusicLover
I guess that means we have a difference of opinion which of course is allowed

@CrazyMusicLover
Thank you for that, it's good when people can disagree, but still go away on good terms.

@AMC55USA
I try not to get into that kind of stuff, and some of the criticism made could be valid it just doesn't make sense to me to keep going on and on about it for days and days...
And I don't know if you can always validate everything here?
I mean people can say whatever they want?

@bijouxbroussard I've seen it a number of times ,but not every single day. Public people are different matter, I think, it comes with the territory

@DDonde I have to admit if I block everybody I saw doing that I would be blocking people I do like over all.
I just have the opinion that maybe we should have left that off in high school?

@ChipmunkErnie
It seems quite infantile.
I hate it when they make blank statements like "well everybody hates her/him on this site"
It's cringy.

@Justmeraeagain Very Junior High School cliqueish

@Justmeraeagain it just makes me think that in order for some to feel good about themselves, they have to tear others down.

@Ambroseguy80 When we foolish mortals get egged on it becomes vicious at times and then we try to wrap it up in virtue if called on it.
It usually takes a hard lesson of causing someone grief to see it for what it is.
Too often the battered just take it, because they have been lead to believe they deserve the treatment or life has taught them to just take it and hopefully to not receive worse for the defiance.
The lesson came for me when I was a teenager and saw the face of the girl we were gossiping about, I never wanted to cause that kind of pain to anyone ever again and would love to say I never did.
But, many years ago, feeling justified, I hurt another person, who had eventually forgave me, and I realized something about myself and changed.
We must be willing to do that or we will always feel justified in being cruel.
For me nothing will justify it, even if I think I am right or they acted foolishly it will be between them and me -not them, me, and the world.

@Justmeraeagain it takes a big person to react the way that you have. Kudos to you for that. May we all be so open to such lessons of the pain we can inflict on others.

@Punxi
I like to just forget the exchange(s) happened and move on...
What you're saying makes sense

@FreeLittleBird
I can't even really justify it with people I don't like there are plenty of people who don't like me and I wouldn't like it if it was done to me.
And it has been done to me on here and on experience project, because someone's always going to have a problem with somebody else.
I like to stay in my own lane and I like just to be myself and not worry about what other people are doing.
I will stick up for people who are being harassed but I do it in a far quieter way.

Ditto 🌹 @Justmeraeagain

@Magenta I think so, too.
I remember a few years back there was a lady, I won't name her, who was a bit prickly and they tore her to shreds .
I didn't particularly like this person, but I didn't think that was right.

@Justmeraeagain Oh I remember several vilifying threads like that. It was disgusting. And many jumped on the bandwagon.

@Adogslife
I would think so, but people can justify a lot

@Justmeraeagain I guess. It just takes so much more energy to be an enemy than a friend. I don’t understand.

@RosaMarie
I guess, I have a different opinion.
I will cut off conversations and I will block people who insist on being cantankerous, but I won't join in an attack that goes on and on.
That doesn't mean I won't stick up for people, I have.
Doesn't mean I won't report criminal behavior.

@OriginalNedKelly
That's pretty much what I'm thinking.
One of the reasons I don't name people...
I'm not even saying I like some of these people,but
I don't want to be part of the pitchfork and torch society...