🤔 First the story was that it was just séxual play, then he said he didn't care, then proceeded to harass her until he got banned

And now after years, he apologizes for his behaviour that lead to the ban..and once reminded of his conduct the story changes to "it never happened"

I am so very grateful I have a sharp memory so I don't end up surrounding myself with, you know, trash like women beaters here or elsewhere.

*Pets my sexy brain*.

I find it entertaining how people of the sort address their countless apologies to the public but never to the actual victims. Oh, we are so sorry...and we have changed..thank you for giving us a chance..

But it makes sense since the majority act like they are the ones in a place to redeem others and forgive them. Supply and demand.

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SUPERVlXEN · F

People keep enabling them and telling them how brave they are. 🤢

Miram · 31-35, F

@SUPERVlXEN

Exactly, that's why it keeps happening. These sort of people are enabled over and over again.

All about prioritizing community harmony. This is so repetitive.

SUPERVlXEN · F

@Miram
I’ve called out some of them over the years… they stay, their victims disappear.

Miram · 31-35, F

@SUPERVlXEN

Yes, this is so incredibly common. It feels isolating to see people side with your abuser.

Also, when I refreshed his memory, while denying it happened, he brought up my childhood abuse 😂 The amount of people who succum to bringing that up thinking it would make me doubt my judgement is so darn insane.

My childhood experiences are exactly why I can see these patterns and games with way more clarity than most people. They don't make me doubt my judgement. They are why I am capable of holding truth irrespective of the context.

And it applies to plenty of other women. Intuition is powerful tool. Much more powerful than social cohesion.