🤔 First the story was that it was just séxual play, then he said he didn't care, then proceeded to harass her until he got banned

And now after years, he apologizes for his behaviour that lead to the ban..and once reminded of his conduct the story changes to "it never happened"

I am so very grateful I have a sharp memory so I don't end up surrounding myself with, you know, trash like women beaters here or elsewhere.

*Pets my sexy brain*.

I find it entertaining how people of the sort address their countless apologies to the public but never to the actual victims. Oh, we are so sorry...and we have changed..thank you for giving us a chance..

But it makes sense since the majority act like they are the ones in a place to redeem others and forgive them. Supply and demand.

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deathfairy · 31-35

Wait.. are you talking about who I think you’re talking about? 🥺

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deathfairy · 31-35

Am I interacting w this person?

Because I keep having a memory of something from years ago.. a story that I can’t shake, but also I have no clarity over it. But through the years I have learned to always believe the woman.. @Miram

Miram · 31-35, F

@deathfairy

I don't blame people for not remembering everything that goes on here.

When I said supply and demand , I was referring to when it actually happened and he offered resemblance of an apology years ago then backed down eventually from it.

I know that me remembering these sort of things and others is an anomaly, might even be described as rare trait. I would not hold people accountable for having to let go.

deathfairy · 31-35

As I said, I myself remember something also.. So it’s not only you..

I just don’t know the details. But since I am not alone in remembering, that means I shouldn’t ignore my intuition. @Miram

SUPERVlXEN · F

People keep enabling them and telling them how brave they are. 🤢

Miram · 31-35, F

@SUPERVlXEN

Exactly, that's why it keeps happening. These sort of people are enabled over and over again.

All about prioritizing community harmony. This is so repetitive.

SUPERVlXEN · F

@Miram
I’ve called out some of them over the years… they stay, their victims disappear.

Miram · 31-35, F

@SUPERVlXEN

Yes, this is so incredibly common. It feels isolating to see people side with your abuser.

Also, when I refreshed his memory, while denying it happened, he brought up my childhood abuse 😂 The amount of people who succum to bringing that up thinking it would make me doubt my judgement is so darn insane.

My childhood experiences are exactly why I can see these patterns and games with way more clarity than most people. They don't make me doubt my judgement. They are why I am capable of holding truth irrespective of the context.

And it applies to plenty of other women. Intuition is powerful tool. Much more powerful than social cohesion.

SinlessOnslaught · M

Only you can make such a serious and sharp observation and in the middle of it, add "*Pets my sexy brain*".

Miram · 31-35, F

@SinlessOnslaught

Pets my own brain some more*

SinlessOnslaught · M

@Miram 🙄 Here *pets it from a better angle*

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

CigarHuffer101?

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