So, I’m someone who rarely gets messages from random members here. I’m not a magnet for them, which can be a very good thing considering.
But I did something out of the norm recently by changing my profile picture to one that features cleavage and since doing so I’ve gotten the amount of messages from unknowns that usually make up the number for the entire year.
It’s crazy. But also the life of a female here. And I know this is tame. And not all of them are “bad guys” but it’s just crazy what a particular kind of profile picture can bring to your door.
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@HikingMan I have so many butterfly pics and even a praying mantis I saved from the pool that I perched on my leg. The fall leaf one that just so happened to have my legs in it was a favorite though. But yeah, unfortunately I can’t display too much here. I’m not super comfortable with that kind of attention.
I don't envy the position of honest or sharing women on this site. For every honest or caring interaction there's probably 10 creeps that hop in like piranhas.
Anyways, you and all the other women on here, (even the ones that flaunt or play themselves for attention) deserve more respect than you're all given.
It's no wonder that so many women chose The Bear in the woods over a random man....
Peace, Respect, Happiness, and Love - That's my wish for all of you women out there subjected to the crassness.
