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Basic human selfishness.
They don't care what's there or really what you say directly to them for that matter for the most part as it'll be disregarded in favor of their own desires and agenda in the long run unless it aligns with things of their own that are found to be ideal.
It's kind of like romantic relationships. We all go in saying what we do and don't want... Agree on doing things a certain way, but often one isn't on the same page and puppetting responses just because it will get them closer to getting that hot guy or girl. They just hope you will like them so much by then that you'll feel obligated to put up with their bullshit and shut up about it.
They don't care what's there or really what you say directly to them for that matter for the most part as it'll be disregarded in favor of their own desires and agenda in the long run unless it aligns with things of their own that are found to be ideal.
It's kind of like romantic relationships. We all go in saying what we do and don't want... Agree on doing things a certain way, but often one isn't on the same page and puppetting responses just because it will get them closer to getting that hot guy or girl. They just hope you will like them so much by then that you'll feel obligated to put up with their bullshit and shut up about it.