Observation of SW.

Have to say there appears to be many people here who are married or in relationships and are on this platform ALOT.

Obviously you have your reasons and no judgement, but surely if you're here, your not happy 🤷

Maybe the above said, your partner's are aware.
If so that's cool. If not, why not?

Are you being honest with yourselves? 🤔

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JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

Why would I not be happy because I'm here and am married? There are many happy married people here. I am perfectly honest with myself and others here.

Purplerain78 · 41-45, F

@JimboSaturn Does your wife know though?

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@Purplerain78 No. I don't know everything she is doing on the internet as well. This is a place I can confide and ask questions of others anonymously. This doesn't mean I'm not happy.

Purplerain78 · 41-45, F

@JimboSaturn See to me that's dishonest on both your parts. If it works for you both and you trust one another enough to know there's no sexting other people etc then fair enough. How would you feel though if you discovered something you didn't want to, or she did from you?

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@Purplerain78 I don't find it dishonest at all, she is an adult, she doesn't have to tell me everyone she talks to. I am very confident in our relationship; we are together for life and love each other.
Just because you can't imagine a relationship like that, it doesn't mean it's wrong.

My observation is that when people say they are not being judgmental, they are being exactly that.

Purplerain78 · 41-45, F

@JimboSaturn Not saying it's wrong, many people have open relationships. I just think it takes a huge amount of trust. If you have that then great, and good for you 🙂