Observation of SW.

Have to say there appears to be many people here who are married or in relationships and are on this platform ALOT.

Obviously you have your reasons and no judgement, but surely if you're here, your not happy 🤷

Maybe the above said, your partner's are aware.
If so that's cool. If not, why not?

Are you being honest with yourselves? 🤔

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Ontheroad · M

I think some of it is they just want a little "me time", and it has nothing to do with how strong/good their marriage/relationship is.

Purplerain78 · 41-45, F

@Ontheroad When their "me time" is all the time that can't be healthy. I'd say it does indeed indicate something isn't quite right in their relationships.

Ontheroad · M

@Purplerain78 I did say "some" and yes, I agree with you... some are struggling and looking for an outlet.

Purplerain78 · 41-45, F

@Ontheroad Why can't people just be honest with one another.

Ontheroad · M

@Purplerain78 That's a complicated question. If I had to guess, it's more that they are sort of satisfied with their marriage/relationship, but there is something missing that drives them to look elsewhere to fill that void.

They may have tried working it out with their partner and gotten nowhere, but still, it's a comfortable (mostly) relationship that they don't want to risk losing... hence their online presence.

Purplerain78 · 41-45, F

@Ontheroad If their other half isn't aware of their online activity though isn't that kind of selfish? Living a big of a lie really...🤔

Ontheroad · M

@Purplerain78 Maybe, maybe not... there are too many different situations for me to judge why others do what they do. For all I know, being able to come here and let loose, or find a bit of comfort/get what it is they need, might be the out they need to save a family.

I've found that life isn't a simple yes or no, right or wrong, truth or lie. Yes, some are here to cheat, and that is wrong, but I think that is a very small minority.