anyone else search thru forum\group membership for someone to chat with?? doesnt seem to work for me

A lot of us take our time getting to know people on public posts before we venture into chats with people.
I don't really chat anymore, too many people making it bad for those who may not have any ulterior motives

I have tried to find females to chat with and had no such luck. I just feel that I am more open with females I guess.
Some are sexually oriented, some are not.

I have tried that and I agree it doesn’t seem to work for me either .

No, I don't come here to chat. I just like commenting on posts

I'm not sure that sw is for that anymore.

I find that most cold calls are pervs looking for nudes or sex chats. Post in public, at least those people (crazy as they are) are people.

No, actually.
I never have.
You're doing it the sensible way but this place is anything but sensible.

Not many chat too often outside of their trusted group, it is too much hit and miss with people here.

Just make an 18-21 F account