What have you learned from being here at SW? Feel free to share. Or inflict.

1. There are great people here. You might have to look with the Hubble telescope, but you'll find them.

2. On the other side of the coin, there are people here who are too damaged or broken to be a real friend. Some of them are the worst fake phony frauds of them all, singing your praises for one minute, then blocking you with no explanation the next. Best not to take it too personally. Block their asses right back.

3. Everyone has a place here. You can even fit in by not fitting in. Yes, it's true.

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lovelychicadee · 46-50, F

I have learned you really can’t waste your mental energy on the people who are just going to hate and be negative. There’s no changing them or convincing them otherwise. I’d much rather invest my time on quality people which there are many of on here.

SW-User

@lovelychicadee We only have so much time in life, and the more we understand this, I'd like to think more don't waste time this way. I think you know I'll say you don't, and I hope you'll say I don't, but really I do in a different way.

Maturebate · 70-79, M

@lovelychicadee YOu are right. THere are some here who are delusional or twisted so you have to forget them and move on and dont let them suck the emotional energy from you.