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I guess it's time...

SW is not my place anymore I guess. I came here because I was lonely but I'm leaving feeling even worse than I came here. The number of times I've been ghosted has killed my confidence in myself. But I've also met a couple of nice people and seen a lot of nice things happen on SW. But not to me. So thank you for all the memories. I hope no one goes through what I did here.
kodiac · 22-25, M
I think part of the problem is the algorithm. There are so many users here that we just never see so it narrows the pool of people to choose from . I been here for years but most of the people in the image feed i have never heard of.
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@kodiac Haha... I guess so. I think it also has a lot to do with managing your expectations.
R5000 · 41-45, M
The number of times I've been ghosted

I understand this one!
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
You’re meeting the wrong people. There are a lot of mentally unstable people here
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@Jenny1234 I understand Jenny. Its not the wrong people. I think it was the wrong expectation I set. I could be one of those mentally unstable people too and that would be unfair to the other person to tolerate my issues. But I am doing better this time.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@conscienceforsale Yeah the best thing is not to have any expectations
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I have studied this trend. Trust me. You will be back.
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@YourMomsSecretCrush You're right. I am back but now I know what to expect here. I am enjoying the second round though.
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@MarkPaul Sorry I tagged @YourMomsSecretCrush by mistake
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
SW-User
You could have contacted me but you didn’t like most people. 🙄🙄🙄
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@SW-User Thanks so much. Now that I am back, I know who to call. Thanks for being so awesome.
SW-User
No problem, you’re welcome friend @conscienceforsale
SW-User
I dont think ive ever seen ya but i dont pay a lot of attention to anybody besides myself
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@SW-User I think that works better
it aint for everybody. LOL
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@YourMomsSecretCrush I fully agree with you.
Jungleman · M
why take a website that serious? it sounds like you have other issues going on.
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@Jungleman I do. Just needed to manage my expectations here. Thanks
Must be taking a while to "leave" 5 months and your still here
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@ExperienceDLT ha ha... Fast math. I was gone for a while. It's an old post. I returned. Loneliness was bigger than the frustrations here. Just have to manage expectations
@conscienceforsale every guy in here gets ghosted and most the females are wary of talking to guys on here anyway because the idiots that send dick pics and constantly harrass them ect make all guys look bad
hunkalove · 61-69, M
This is not a nice place. Don't take it personally. Best wishes!
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@hunkalove Thanks, mate! Its just like the rest of the world out there. I've learnt to manage my expectations from the people I meet here.
Berti33 · 36-40, F
You please some more time... Why not try chatting with a few on their personal boxes.? 😊
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@Berti33 Thanks. But I think it was more about managing expectations.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Man, that sucks!
I feel ya
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@rrraksamam Hey, thanks and I am back but different this time. I think I know what to do here now
Im not sure who its for anymore
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
@stound You can ignore it. I returned. I guess I am more hopefull/(hopeless) than lonely. But I've learnt to manage my expectations
SW-User
I understand the feelings.... I started my first account shortly after a really sad time in my life and this place just didn't help with it.
I hope you find what helps you and maybe even some people in your daily life to talk to and share with.

 
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