Which topics stir up violence on SW?

@DCarey Get this though, normally when the subject of size comes up, it is some weird guy who wants to be humiliated because his wang is really little.

Who the heck does that? 🤨

@Punches The mentally deranged

@DCarey You mean to say someone is deranged enough to go on some obscure forum and think, "I wish the ladies to laugh at my inadequacy"?

I mean, wouldn't they get more feedback and humiliation on a real social media like twitter FB tic tok or whatever people are on?

@Punches I don't understand why people seek humiliation. Maybe they are trolls. Maybe SW is small enough so they won't run into somebody they know and truly get humiliated.

@Punches Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) falls under the category of masochism. It's unusual, I know, but they have an urge to go through it. Masochism is a paraphilia, meaning it turns them on.

They do it here for the anonymity. Facebook and other sites are usually non-anonymous, and their rules are more strict on nudity. They want to indulge on the side without friends and family knowing.

@DCarey I see what you did there. 🤭

@Fretnought I do not know though how someone could be humiliated and turned on at the same time. I guess we all have fantasies that make no sense.

@Punches I have a paraphilia, too, so I can understand. I think we all have something that gets our motors going, but we don't say anything.

@Fretnought I mean did psychologists get together and decide, "Okay, anyone who has anything other than missionary sex through a hole in the bedsheet is abnormal."

I mean "vanilla" sex is as boring as it gets.

@Punches No, I don't think they did. When I was in college, I took a special interest in abnormal psychology. After school, I went straight to work in mental health. They're just names we give these cases. In some cases, they reach a point where the person has legal trouble (e.g., flashing in public, murdering someone, etc.)

@Fretnought If someone's sexual interests interferes with their ability to function in society then yeah it could be a problem but what if it is just the weird things that consenting adults do behind closed doors? Is it still considered abnormal?

@Punches In some cases. I guess society pretty much decides what's normal, and any deviation can be included. It's primarily to label it. Back in the 60s, homosexuality was considered a mental disorder in the DSM. It was removed later on. These things change with time. Each new edition of the DSM adds and takes away.