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BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I am so sorry, and I didn’t answer your question so now I will. I think that when someone is in the last days and there is nothing that can be done, it should be offered as an option.
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
@BackyardShaman Yes! But the crazies call that murder. It isn't. It is compassion and kindness, like what we do for our animals, but society doesn't do for us.
But "last days" is the kink in your position, no offense intended.
But "last days" is the kink in your position, no offense intended.
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
Maybe a better description than last days is on hospice, unable to eat walk or think, in serious pain all the time and on heavy pain meds.@FlowersNButterflies
FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
@BackyardShaman Does not work that way in dementia. No doctor can affirm an expected time of death. In my illness, we can survive miserably for years in a most horrifying state of existence without hope.
Something like cancer is more easily understood - a cancer patient exhausts all possible treatments, and then the doctors know the person will die soon, as the disease is so documented. Then they are willing to help a person die.
Something like cancer is more easily understood - a cancer patient exhausts all possible treatments, and then the doctors know the person will die soon, as the disease is so documented. Then they are willing to help a person die.