When did you feel sad at SW , emotionally?

I really like SW in general. When did it bring you up? It has many times for me. With care and positive, interesting views and tips. 🌺

But tonight, I feel down. I post a more serious topic and get barely any replies. Thats when i feel sad here most. When a topic thats not about sex or funny or a shit post, gets barely any feedback. 😔

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VirginMatchmaker · 51-55, M

It is frustrating when you put your heart and soul into a post and nobody replies to it. Tbh it is soul destroying and it happens to me regularly.

I find not getting any messages from anyone upsetting too. I seem to contact people but rarely does anyone contact me. It's like I'm invisible or not interesting enough to have anyone care.

At that point I don't just feel sad but very lonely too. I don't have real world friends because I'm too introverted. So here is all I've got and it's awful when you realise there's not really anybody here either.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@VirginMatchmaker youre not invisible to me matey. Easy to say. But i miss half your posts coz im rarely logging on these days

VirginMatchmaker · 51-55, M

@Gangstress awwww thank you. Sometimes I wish I didn't have so much time to post online tbh. Real world has to take precedence so I completely understand.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@VirginMatchmaker Exactly. I have a rather lonely life currently, and besides my sister, I dont really have anyone I can talk to, befriend, etc. Most irl just want shallow conversation or look the other way. So when you come to a place here TO share your life or experiences, and no one replies, its like a punch in the gut. I know not everyone sees it on the feed but many do. Im sorry you have also felt this. In general though, I know many here do have good hearts and I have had many positive replies and interactions on posts. It just DOES suck still that one deeper post you put a bit into that gets nothing.😟

VirginMatchmaker · 51-55, M

@Coralmist it does suck indeed. I'm sorry you are also lonely in the real world too. Like you I've had positive feedback in the past but deep stuff is ignored by everyone except for people you've had plenty of interactions with and even they don't always reply.
If you ever need to talk I'm a good listener so just PM me. Although I'm pretty sure we've PM'd along time ago.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@VirginMatchmaker Ty Virgin..appreciate your words🐦🙂

VirginMatchmaker · 51-55, M

@Coralmist you're welcome and anytime.

kodiac · 22-25, M

@VirginMatchmaker Truth and it's worse when people say suck it up don't be so sensitive.

VirginMatchmaker · 51-55, M

@kodiac absolutely. Yeah we do all cry too much in today's world. But there's sometimes when it's appropriate and people just need some support.