Probably as hard as it is to be a male in the real world. But it depends. As a male you know you are going to be rejected a huge majority of the time and this carries over to SW as well. Now introduce some variables into the equation: If communication, civility, a flair for words and other positive traits that lend themselves to online interactions are your forte as a male, then SW is probably a better place than the real world to find females to interact with. If your appearance and persona are your best traits as a male then SW will not help much coz those do not translate over to the online world. On the whole, I guess SW mirrors the real world when it comes to dealing with the male condition.
It isn't about you. Calm down. I'm not looking for something specific here. I don't plan to stay for long. That's all. I'm here temporarily and looking for short and funny connection. I don't live here.
Maybe we should try to forget our gender sometimes. Try going for what is between the ears rather than what is between the legs. How do you know whether you think as male or female or neither or both?
@GFExplorer: Yeah, there's no possible way to be able to totally think like the opposite gender.. if we were able to do that then both males and females would think just a like. Wouldn't that be nice. I'm also confused by what you meant by thinking like 'neither'.. are you suggesting we have the ability to think like animals or something?
@pinkrainbowkisses: No, not like animals - just not gender based. Please tell me which part of the way you think is female? And how do you know? And your point that we would think alike is my very point. I think we do. Yes, I know we have been conditioned to think in certain ways, but that is just conditioning? Bit like girls like pink and boys like blue? Girls like dolls and boys like trains? We are now able to express slightly differently, if we want to of course. Without discrimination.
@FreeInterpretation: you may be right of course, this is just my view. I personally do not think there is a female or male brain per se but only a body (including the brain) affected by hormones.
@TexChik: I mean people ignoring your posts. If you make slightly sexual suggestion posts some women may think you are a pervert etc etc :) lolll like you have to take good care of your steps.
@FreeInterpretation: I actually did once as a trial on EP. Within an hour or two I had received half a dozen messages of Hi, Would I like to talk, Do you do pictures, where are you from etc etc. It was interesting playing them along, trying to type 'in a high voice'. Insightful.
You know what, even I don't know how to form a group on here. Some features of this site are not really user friendly. So much for us "calm male SW users"... lol!