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How hard is it to be a male on sw?

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chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
Probably as hard as it is to be a male in the real world. But it depends. As a male you know you are going to be rejected a huge majority of the time and this carries over to SW as well.
Now introduce some variables into the equation: If communication, civility, a flair for words and other positive traits that lend themselves to online interactions are your forte as a male, then SW is probably a better place than the real world to find females to interact with. If your appearance and persona are your best traits as a male then SW will not help much coz those do not translate over to the online world.
On the whole, I guess SW mirrors the real world when it comes to dealing with the male condition.
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
I'm not sure yet 😁 if you see my circle are mostly men, so it isn't about your gender for sure.
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
Oh no... that's even worse... it is about ME...😫😭😢😥
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
It isn't about you. Calm down. I'm not looking for something specific here. I don't plan to stay for long. That's all. I'm here temporarily and looking for short and funny connection. I don't live here.
Maybe we should try to forget our gender sometimes. Try going for what is between the ears rather than what is between the legs. How do you know whether you think as male or female or neither or both?
@GFExplorer: Yeah, there's no possible way to be able to totally think like the opposite gender.. if we were able to do that then both males and females would think just a like. Wouldn't that be nice. I'm also confused by what you meant by thinking like 'neither'.. are you suggesting we have the ability to think like animals or something?
@pinkrainbowkisses: No, not like animals - just not gender based. Please tell me which part of the way you think is female? And how do you know?
And your point that we would think alike is my very point. I think we do. Yes, I know we have been conditioned to think in certain ways, but that is just conditioning? Bit like girls like pink and boys like blue? Girls like dolls and boys like trains? We are now able to express slightly differently, if we want to of course. Without discrimination.
@FreeInterpretation: you may be right of course, this is just my view. I personally do not think there is a female or male brain per se but only a body (including the brain) affected by hormones.
TexChik · F
How HARDis it? Pun intended? 😳
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
@TexChik: I mean people ignoring your posts. If you make slightly sexual suggestion posts some women may think you are a pervert etc etc :) lolll like you have to take good care of your steps.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@FreeInterpretation: oh... nah... we don't get as much attention but it's kinda nice, it makes it so much more special when we do get it 👀
TexChik · F
@FreeInterpretation: of course and I'm just having a little fun ... I know what you meant... I'm just a smartass! 😉
Rutterman · 46-50, M
I've never had a problem being a male on this site. Can't speak for others, though.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Simplegirlstory: *flutters eyes* 👀
Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
Martin you comes into good guys from my viewpoint in SW
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
@FreeInterpretation: Could you please define "good and cool"?
adshaw · 36-40, M
Not hard just prepare to be disappointed if you think someone who supposedly wants to chat doesn't respond at all. 🙄
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
I heard that a lot :)
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@FreeInterpretation: so true
Not hard at all ,it's actually fun
tenente · 100+, M
@spookytenente: nice ,I'm liking the Halloween theme 😉
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
@spookytenente: you know his taste lol.
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
Easy. It's a man's world, even on SW. I'm not saying that's a good thing.
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
Exactly what Wraithorn said.
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
@TyphoidJerry: agreed to what he said.
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
@TyphoidJerry: @FreeInterpretation: Merci...:-)
Serenitree · F
I've never been a male on any site. We, females that is, should all get a second account and come on as men. Then we can get the feel of it.


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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@FreeInterpretation: 👀 Maybe I will~
@FreeInterpretation: I actually did once as a trial on EP. Within an hour or two I had received half a dozen messages of Hi, Would I like to talk, Do you do pictures, where are you from etc etc. It was interesting playing them along, trying to type 'in a high voice'. Insightful.
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
@GFExplorer: lol.
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
Uh, pretty easy? I don't get endless harassing PMs like many women do here, so that's nice.
But do women assume that's all you want anytime you make contact via pm?
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FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
@lacsar: I could indeed break your heart 😜
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FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
😂
SW-User
There are pluses and minuses.
It's hard being anyone these days
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
🤔
YoMomma ·
Hehe
SW-User
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
If you dig people ignoring your PMs and not answering your posts much, then it's a piece of cake. Lol.
Lmao!
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
🙂
LoveChild · 26-30, F
How hard is it? haha
ItsDanny · M
for me its not easy because I always struggle on what to say especially with girls
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
In sw? Not at all...
Sorry im late but how is it any different?
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
Have you ever received a sexually-explicit PM or an invitation to sexual activity you didn't consent to?
Hahah yes
CaptainCanadia · 41-45, M
I've been on this site and EP before it for four, maybe five years. I've received... one? Maybe two? So it's easier to be a guy by that virtue.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
over where?


looks around.... where?! OMG!


where am i?!
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
On sw
Very. Doesn't seem to matter who we are. Every male is almost instantly stereotyped as a sexual deviant of some kind
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
You know what, even I don't know how to form a group on here. Some features of this site are not really user friendly. So much for us "calm male SW users"... lol!
@chilloutab2: when I try something on this site


Yup that pretty much says the thousand words I experience in my world 😉
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
Lololol!!! Very nicely put. I completely concur.
SW-User
We get ignored, no one cares about us, but at least no pervs
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
I heard you are a good man. So it's easy for you *wink wink*
SW-User
Lol you got something in your eye 😜
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
I hope what they say about you is true 😜
Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F
For good male like Dave, Daniel, MIsanotaku, Resilience etc it is easy but for dickhead males, it is hard.
FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
😄 and Nigel
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FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
Tell me about it..?
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FreeInterpretation · 46-50, F
@LvChris: lol

 
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