Thank you admin

I had an unpleasent experience here last night. I want to thank @Nuno for acting quickly and @Jessa29 for checking i was ok.
I havent decided yet it i'm comfortable enough to stay .....although i dont want to be bullied off a site ive been a member of since the off.
Possibly...i may put this account into Hiatus ....i dont want to delete it because i have messages from friends going back years i really dont want to loose.
But i dont feel safe as Ruby anymore.
I may set up another account ....new name...new start ....im not sure. And..if i do....i wont be adding friends, followers etc. Im just very uncertain now of being here.. or any social media to be honest.

Ive shared my real (first) name here with about 8 people over 3 and a half years. People id built nice friendships with...and trusted. One of these people (someone i thought highly of for a while) sadly didnt like something i said on a post a few weeks ago and turned on me in spectactualar fashion. I blocked. But last night i found out they are obviously still extreamly cross with me .....and clearly wanted others to see me in a bad light....even calling me by my real name on the post.

I dont know what to do....thoughts? X

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

That’s a really low blow publicly using your real name. That’s a huge boundary that he crossed. People may have their differences and get emotional or really bitter but to publicize identity is the nail in the coffin. Honestly I can see why you would want to start over but the fact is he will find out what your new user name is. I’d say block him, you notified administrators and let them deal with him. Sorry about somebody being so intrusive and revealing like that :(

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Keepitsimple hexwas already blocked. He set up a new account. The thing is....the post was indirectly about him. I asked why i could still see posts and avatar of a blocked user ( him....no names mentioned)
I think somebody must have given him the heads up on the post. So someone is no doubt reading this and passing on what im saying. So...he'll probably keep settingbup new accounts and keep doing it.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@RubySoo Keep your circle small. Some people are so vain, everything is about them, you know? Like not everything is about them. Whether or not it was isn’t his business. You’re free to post what you want barring names.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Keepitsimple thats exactly what he accused me of...making everything about me.....