Is there a way to not show whether you're online or not?

I believe there is an option in your account settings to show or hide your online status.

Your avatar will keep popping up in the recently active list even if your green dot isn’t on. Ya can’t really hide from us. 😝

Yep. In settings you can choose to leave the light off.

Yes, there is an option on your profile.

VIP has the best way to be invisible.

Yes

No.... inquiring minds want to know

Who you hiding from? 😮

not really

I'm hiding all the time 😎