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Should I go with my confidence or b little safer

Life is at very important point where I have two options and I need to choose one.
One is where future is not certain but the confidence is that I can make it better and stay happy. Other option is too choose the safety financialy but family life will be hamper.
What to do.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I think some of us live lives where we see risk everywhere and we become entrenched in the 'safety' of what we know.
Others, of course, see opportunity and chance everywhere and constantly seek those things as they stimulate the mind.
As well as, hopefully, improve their lives.
So I suppose you have to weigh up Risk versus Reward and see which you feel more comfortable following.
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
@Picklebobble2 risk is both ways but my problem in life is that I have sharp mind and can analysis worst case scenario but my heart says live the life the way you want it to be.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@Ajkabd I so get this !!
I think I'm starting to learn that most things in life, even if they require sacrifice and commitment,are still relatively short term in the grand scheme of things.
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
Grand scheme of thing
You are right, you know sometimes I have seen some future things in my dream. So when that really happens to me I feel that my decisions are not mine it is all written by God. So the grand scheme of things are important.
Are you talking about changing careers, wives, or gender orientation?
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
I have beautifully set up my home and everything, friends relative all are around and specially my mother who is aging and not very well in health Dnt want to leave the place as feels moving away in end of life from all relatives is like nothing worst.
If I move alone I will miss the childhood of my 4 year old son who will grow fast in coming years.
Either I live happily with family with some extra efforts or just go.
He'll never be four again. I wish you luck in your deliberations and will say a prayer requesting guidance for you.
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
Thank u mam for your thought
LyricalOne · F
Picture yourself at the end of your life saying, "Wow, I really regret not making that choice."

Which one is it?
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
@LyricalOne the scenario is that I m working with a very good company and doing great but now they want me to relocating which I Dnt want to due to personal reasons. If I stay back I have resign and nothing in hand, so I will be starting from scratch but I feel this is possible.
If I move I will have to leave the family for now and if I don't I will not have job.
Splendida · 51-55, F
Choice number one. If you don't try it, you will always regret it.
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
@Splendida thanks Bcose my heart also says this
Splendida · 51-55, F
I'm counting on you to make it happen for yourself now.
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
Thanks dear. I strongly feels when the things get tough, then though gets going.
At the end of the day we have one life. If we didn't enjoyed it than what the use of money
Acttwo · F
If you feel confident and good about it that’s a good start
Ajkabd · 36-40, M
@Acttwo I too feel same but only constraint is I will either be very good or will be finished

 
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